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my friend is totally against kissing and making out before high school. i am only in 7th grade but for our school people make out all the time. when im talking to her i tend to tell her that im against it too, because i am. but my boyfriend kissed me the other day and i was so happy i ran into the cafeteria and i was about to tell her but then i remembered and acted like nothing happened. i dont know how im going to tell her and i want to tell her because i dont want to keep something like this secret from her. help please!

Usually, when people act like they're totally against kissing, it's because they secretly want to be kissed and they're just putting up a front to make themselves look tough. I know this from personal experience.

You can just go ahead and tell her. Even if she really IS against kissing, she's not going to say anything that would make you feel bad. You are, after all, her friend---if she behaves badly about it, then she doesn't deserve your friendship. Chances are, she'll probably change her views about kissing once it actually happens to her, or someone she's close to.

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