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my friend is totally against kissing and making out before high school. i am only in 7th grade but for our school people make out all the time. when im talking to her i tend to tell her that im against it too, because i am. but my boyfriend kissed me the other day and i was so happy i ran into the cafeteria and i was about to tell her but then i remembered and acted like nothing happened. i dont know how im going to tell her and i want to tell her because i dont want to keep something like this secret from her. help please!
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she should respect your morals and ethics, just because she doesn't believe in making out or kissing before high school doesn't mean she should be angry or soemthing like that ( i would tel her) and if she gets mad tell her that those are her feelings, i mean its not like you had sex in 7th grade. But at the same time you could also keep it a secret that your boyfriend kissed you cause its between the two of you and has nothing to do with your friend.
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Usually, when people act like they're totally against kissing, it's because they secretly want to be kissed and they're just putting up a front to make themselves look tough. I know this from personal experience.
You can just go ahead and tell her. Even if she really IS against kissing, she's not going to say anything that would make you feel bad. You are, after all, her friend---if she behaves badly about it, then she doesn't deserve your friendship. Chances are, she'll probably change her views about kissing once it actually happens to her, or someone she's close to.
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hey girl! just be straight up with her and tell her. just because she is against it doesn't mean YOU can't do it. if she is truly your friend, she won't judge you by something like kissing your boyfriend, it's a normal thing to do. she might not be HAPPY for you, but if you wana be honest just tell her! she'll get over it sooner or later. good luck! ♥Jenn
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