Whenever I like a guy, I feel nervous around him and feel it hard to talk calmly with him. In our computers class, i sit next to this reallynice guy, but I'm afraid to just talk to him. I don't want to be rejected or seem desperate. In fact, i don't even want him to know that i'm interested, because then i'm afraid that he'll be weirded out.
SmoothiesFknRock answered Thursday January 18 2007, 10:27 pm: hey! whatever you do, be yourself! don't try and be somebody that you aren't to make guys notice you. ask him a question about something, or find something you have in common with him to point out to strike up a conversation. then gradually begin to talk to him more. try not to think about rejection.. i mean after all, whats the worst that can happen from trying to talk to someone? he's a person just like everyone else! just because you talk to a person doesn't necessarily mean you have to be interested in dating them, or that you're desperate. you're simply trying to make friends! good luck hun, don't be shy! ♥Jenn [ SmoothiesFknRock's advice column | Ask SmoothiesFknRock A Question ]
LoVe_cHaRu answered Thursday January 18 2007, 10:25 pm: sweetie, you're not gonna get anywhere if you don't let him know you're interested! maybe break the ice? ask him for help with something, or ask if you can borrow his pencil. i mean, you don't have to just come out and say, "you're a babe. i love you."
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