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I don't understand this...I'm already in the 9th grade...and ALL of my friends have boyfriends! What do guys look for in a girl? Because, to me, it looks like I don't have it. I'm NOT a pushover, I don't dress slutty, and I'm not flirty. Let's also say that "I'm not easy to "get to"". I don't know. I'm a VERY good student....and I get good grades....but this seems like somewhat of a turn off for guys. And those guys that are nerdy (but cute) too, still don't PAY attention to me! It's like I'm invisible...It's just not fair. ;_;

At this age, guys like girls who are cute, make themselves available at all times, and are easy to pick up. Intelligence is not exactly a turnoff---if they happen to be intelligent, fine. But intelligence is not what attracts most teenage boys.

Keep this in mind:

"Women are like apples. The best ones are at the top of the tree. Men don't want to reach for the good ones because thay are afraid of the falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't good, but easy to get. So the apples on top think something is wrong with them where in reality, they are amazing! They just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who is brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree."

You just have to wait for that person to appear. However, DON'T change yourself and try to modify yourself so you're like the rotten apple that's easy to pick up. It will not make you happy, and you won't have a nice relationship at all.

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(Rating: 5) That little apple comment was so cute! :D Thanks very much :)
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