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Ok so my friends do these things they call bashings. It's where we sit in a circle and tell esch other what we don't like each other. I hate it i think it's ridiculous casue i feel like their trying to stream line me so i'm some form of perfect friend robot.
They say it's so we don't talk behind each others back. Whenever i say i think it's stupid and it hurts me they just say i'm so sensitive and can't handle critism.
What do you think is it a good idea or stupid?
What should i do?
Its good and bad. My friends used to do this too! I get the idea theyre TRYING to get at: An honest, open place where you can all tell your feelings about whats been going on. BUT, if you think about it, thats a LOT of feelings going around. And, its really overwhelming when you have multiple people tell you a few things you should do better. I think you should agree to stop having these bashings and instead, try being honest with eachother WHEN a problem happens. The bashings thing is just way too over the top for anyone to handle, even if they are a really strong person.
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thanks a bunch, ya it is alot to handle
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