I work as a Customer Laison Complaints Case Officer at a major insurance company, where I have worked for 3 years. I left school when I was 17, as I had some very bad experiences at school and wanted to see what the real world had to offer.
I now live with my boyfriend of 3 years and spend my spare time reading, writing, socialising with friends or just watching some TV.
Times are still hard and I'm trying to cope with various health problems on a daily basis but I'm working my way through things and really want to stop it from getting me down.
I dream of some day going to America and watching a real baseball game (we don't have that at all in the UK) and perhaps finding a job I find creatively fulfilling. Until then, I'm happy trying to be me and making the best of what I have.
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Well i'm 15/f and me & my boyfriend have been talking about sexual stuff. Well I like him a lot, and i'm willing to do a lot of things, he wants to finger me. And I said i'd think about it.
But I need to know, Does it hurt, what does it feel like, is there anything bad that can come out of this situation, how long does it last.
Please help!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks in advance!
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You say you're 'willing' to do lots of things. This is very different to wanting to do them. IF you aren't sure you are ready then you need to talk to him about this and let him know how you feel. If he really cares about you, he will wait until you are ready without putting any pressure on you.
Now, as far as this goes, the truth is that nobody could really say because it is all dependant upon technique. It might be that he tries to be a bit rough with you and you find that painful, in which case it might be uncomfortable. On the other hand, he might be too gentle and it won't feel too good at all. The only thing you can do is have him start out being gentle and then work out what feels good for you. You need to have good verbal communication for this to work, as you need to be comfortable telling him what feels good and what doesn't.
As for anything bad that could come out of the situation, as long as his hands are clean when he goes down there, there should be no problems at all. If he is a little rough with you, however, it may make you a little sore but again, this should change with time and growing experience.
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