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Please helllp!
Well i'm 15/f and me & my boyfriend have been talking about sexual stuff. Well I like him a lot, and i'm willing to do a lot of things, he wants to finger me. And I said i'd think about it.
But I need to know, Does it hurt, what does it feel like, is there anything bad that can come out of this situation, how long does it last.
Please help!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks in advance!
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I personaly think it feels good. Thats just me but if it goes on too long you can ask him to stop or what I did was pretend to fall asleep then my bf just stopped and laid by me and stopped. It might hurt if he pushes really hard which he shouldnt
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everyone's body is different, so theres no telling wether or not it will hurt for you. if you havn't had anything (tampons) in you before, it might hurt a bit. my personal experience was fine, it didn't hurt at all, i actually really liked it. but like i said everyone is different. nothing bad can come out of this situation. if he does finger you, he'll probably do it for as long as he feels like doing it, or until you tell him to stop.
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Sorry it took me a little while to answer...
Its up to you what you decide to do with your boyfriend. However if oyu don't think you are ready then tell him no it won't affect the realtionship. If you do decide to do more sexual things with him be sure that he does indeed respect you before doing anythning.
I don't know that i can explain it to you how it feels though. It may sound a little wierd but you can figure out if you like the feeling by fingering yourself. Defferent people like idfferent things and not all girls like that feelings so don't feel wierd if it doesn't pleasure you.
Also if you do decide yo let your beoyfriend finger you make sure his fingernails do not have any rough edges and that his hands are clean.
If you have any other questions leave them in my inbox. Hope i helped!!
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You say you're 'willing' to do lots of things. This is very different to wanting to do them. IF you aren't sure you are ready then you need to talk to him about this and let him know how you feel. If he really cares about you, he will wait until you are ready without putting any pressure on you.
Now, as far as this goes, the truth is that nobody could really say because it is all dependant upon technique. It might be that he tries to be a bit rough with you and you find that painful, in which case it might be uncomfortable. On the other hand, he might be too gentle and it won't feel too good at all. The only thing you can do is have him start out being gentle and then work out what feels good for you. You need to have good verbal communication for this to work, as you need to be comfortable telling him what feels good and what doesn't.
As for anything bad that could come out of the situation, as long as his hands are clean when he goes down there, there should be no problems at all. If he is a little rough with you, however, it may make you a little sore but again, this should change with time and growing experience.
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If you don't think that yur ready for this,
then don't do it.
if he really loves you, he would understand.
If you decide to let him,
yeah it does kinda hurt the first time,
it feels weird at first. but once you start
getting the hang of it.
it starts to get pleasurablee.
and i don't thk nuthin,
happends. unless somethin nasty is on his fingers.
so make sure hes a clean guy.
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well it depends if you have don't anything "sexual" before if not it may hurt a little at first....and i don't mean to sound gross but if you use tampons then it most likely won't hurt ...hardly at all becasue they stretch you out a little. as for how long i guess as long as you want..and i can't say how it feels ecasue it feels different to different people...some poeple like it and some don't and it also depends on how well he does that...hope i helped
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It is a possiblity that it may hurt the first time.. If you have ever used a tampon, it will be along the same feeling as that, just with more pleasure and excitement of course. The only bad thing that can come from this situation is getting closer to sex. Sex is a big step and should only be performed when the both of you totally trust each other and are 110% sure you are ready. The time that this lasts can vary. It depends on how long you want it for or whenever he feels he's done.
-Make sure you are ready! Don't let him push you into something you are not positive you are comfortable with.
Good luck! Message me with anymore questions.
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