I work as a Customer Laison Complaints Case Officer at a major insurance company, where I have worked for 3 years. I left school when I was 17, as I had some very bad experiences at school and wanted to see what the real world had to offer.
I now live with my boyfriend of 3 years and spend my spare time reading, writing, socialising with friends or just watching some TV.
Times are still hard and I'm trying to cope with various health problems on a daily basis but I'm working my way through things and really want to stop it from getting me down.
I dream of some day going to America and watching a real baseball game (we don't have that at all in the UK) and perhaps finding a job I find creatively fulfilling. Until then, I'm happy trying to be me and making the best of what I have.
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okay so, i have a friend his name is derek and um, i like him ALOTT and i dont know if he likes me but he goes to my school and uh he has a girlfriend but he flirts with me.. ALOt and he allwys cheats on his girlfriend.. not with me but with other ppl. and he dared me to act out what iw ould do if we had sex and i said you nkow hed finger me wed have sex hed rubb my boobs and like blowjob and shit and hardcore makeout.. and then on aim the next day he was like "u like me i know it" and i said "yes i do".. and hes like awh and everything and seemd nice about it.. then he was like i gotta go an said he would do all that stuff to me whenever i wanted him to. and i sent to him i put "lmfaooo haha okay :]" and then he sent back ":] gooodbye (link)
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I've been in pretty much your exact situation and I know how you feel but you need to really think about what you are suggesting doing here.
First of all, you have already said he "always cheats on his girlfriend." Do you really want to be the sort of girl who deliberately leads a taken guy astray? He may well be that sort of person but are you? How would you feel if you were his girlfriend and you found out all this was going on? I know that you like him and he makes you feel wanted right now but in truth, he's the sort of guy who will go out and get it wherever he can and as often as he can and as much as I hate to say this, you will be nothing more than a notch on his bedpost.
There's also something you really need to bear in mind about this sort of guy. I had a guy who was exactly the same to me when I was 16-17. He kept telling me how sexy I was, how much he wanted me, what he wanted me to do to him and vice versa, but you know what? If I ever said no or tried to talk to him about anything serious, he wanted nothing to do with me and on a number of occasions called me and "ugly, moaning bitch". Now, not all guys are like this but this kind, the "Must spread my wild oats to as many girls right this second" guy are like this. They don't care who you are, what you look like, how old you are or how you feel. If you're up for it, they'll hook up with you.
The bottom line is, he has no respect for you or any other woman out there and he will take what he can and do a runner and it is your health and emotions that will be on the line. I have to say that I think you would be a lot better off waiting a couple of years until you are legally allowed to do this sort of thing and until you find a guy who is worth doing it with because this one in no way deserves you.
Now that I've done my preachy bit, there's nothing any of us on here can do to stop you and so the choice is down to you. If you want to get together with him, just make sure that you are safe and that you are prepared for the way he will treat you afterwards. Also, I can assure you that you wouldn't need to do anything to turn him on because he's already oversexed and anything you did with him would just be a bonus to him.
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THANKS SO MUCH. AND YOU KNOW WHAT? YOUR RIGHT. IM NOT GONNA BE A JUSTA NOTHER GIRL TO HIM.. ITS NEVER GONAN HAPPEN MWE AND HIM. THAKNS A HOLEE BUNCHH =]
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