I work as a Customer Laison Complaints Case Officer at a major insurance company, where I have worked for 3 years. I left school when I was 17, as I had some very bad experiences at school and wanted to see what the real world had to offer.
I now live with my boyfriend of 3 years and spend my spare time reading, writing, socialising with friends or just watching some TV.
Times are still hard and I'm trying to cope with various health problems on a daily basis but I'm working my way through things and really want to stop it from getting me down.
I dream of some day going to America and watching a real baseball game (we don't have that at all in the UK) and perhaps finding a job I find creatively fulfilling. Until then, I'm happy trying to be me and making the best of what I have.
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Is it weird that i am 13 and i still never had my first kiss or boyfriend ever in my life? i think i'm like the only person in my SCHOOL that never had a boyfriend. i always like all these guys but i never tell them because i am scared and i don't want to get hurt. but i don't want to be like most of my friends that go out with a different guy every week. i've had some many guys ask me out before but i always so no, i don't know why. i even said no to this guy i liked for a very long time. i' just don't want to get hurt. i always wanted my first boyfriend, kiss, date or whatever to be with someone that i will always remember. my best friend doesn't even remmeber her first kiss, and i don't want that to happen to me. i need advice to make me feel better about this. (link)
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It's not weird at all. It's sensible. Okay, so everyone else seems to have a boyfriend and everyone else seems to have had their first kisses and so on. As you have said, a lot of them probably don't even remember their first kisses, or remember it being distinctly unpleasent. Why should you waste your firsts just because they did?
I was exactly the same as you right through school. I had a couple of short term boyfriends but I never kissed them because I knew deep down I didn't really want to. I didn't feel enough for them. Then, when I was 17, I met my boyfriend and I finally hd my first kiss. Three and a half years down the line, I'm still with him, very deeply in love, living with him and you know what? I can remember every single thing about that first kiss. I could tell you where we were, how it happened, what aftershave he was wearing and exactly how I felt. Out of all the people I once knew when I was at school, I am the only one I know who wouldn't change anything about my first kiss. It might have been a long wait but it was worth it.
I suspect it will be the same for you. No matter what you do in life, it is always better to wait until YOU are ready and ignore what everyone else does because they aren't the ones who will have to live with the consequences of your actions. Wait until you find someone you really want to share your first kiss with and no matter where it is, what you look like or what is going on around you, I promise it will be special.
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