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Q: There is a boy that I like that [allegedly] likes one of my friends. Apparently a group of my friends know that I like him and he doesn't. He may have an idea but he doesn't know for sure. I was afraid that one of my friends would tell him that I like him and I wanted to beat them to the punch tomorrow when I see him. I want to tell him even though I know nothing will come out of it and I'm not afraid of his rejection. I really don't have anything to hide but I've suddenly started having second thoughts. It feels like the right thing to do is tell him but there really isn't anything to support that idea. Should I go with my gut and tell him, or should I wait until it seems less random?

Tell him. The minds of most guys is not as complicated as 99% of girls think. So just tell him. Like you said, you have nothing to lose. Just because you like him, doesn't mean you guys cant be friends or that you HAVE to date.

I'm suing Disney for making every girl think that they can have a fairytale relationship and live happily ever after in 30 min.

Rating: 5

Thanks for the advice although the last part doesn't really apply to me. I'm too realistic/pessimistic for that whole fairytale business. lol Again, thanks =]

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