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i messed up with my boyfriend. i feel horrible.

ian and i have been going out for 3 months now. i just told him something big about my life that i think he should've known. i told him that i have cut myself before. he flipped out.

he also said that he was gonna end the relationship until i can prove to him that i really want to stay in it (from something else that i did i think). what can i do? talking to him on the phone wont help.

any ideas on what i should do?

Okay first of all let me start out by saying , Why would he flip out because you used to cut your self? That was before , you don`t do it anymore. If he really loves you he wouldn`t make such a big deal about it because alot of teenagers do cut them selves when they are going through a hard time. I think that you should write him a little letter that goes something likes this

Dear Ian ,
I love you so much & I will forever no matter what. I know that to you it is a big deal that I used to cut my self. But i don`t cut myself anymore , alot of people cut their selves when they go through a tough time esspecially teenagers. I really want to stay in this relationship with you because I think you are truley amazing and I don`t want to see myself being without you. < Something like that & then along with the letter send him flowers , yeah it`s usually kind of a thing that a boy would do but in this situation it really dosen`t matter! Hope I helped! Good Luck! && I hope it all works out!
xoxo minela

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