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I work as a Customer Laison Complaints Case Officer at a major insurance company, where I have worked for 3 years. I left school when I was 17, as I had some very bad experiences at school and wanted to see what the real world had to offer.

I now live with my boyfriend of 3 years and spend my spare time reading, writing, socialising with friends or just watching some TV.

Times are still hard and I'm trying to cope with various health problems on a daily basis but I'm working my way through things and really want to stop it from getting me down.

I dream of some day going to America and watching a real baseball game (we don't have that at all in the UK) and perhaps finding a job I find creatively fulfilling. Until then, I'm happy trying to be me and making the best of what I have.
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ok well my best friend moved away and we have been getting into alot of fights and like we used to never fight and now she thinks i won't stand up for her and stuff like that and now shes says were not best friends anymore we are just friends and she wants me to prove to her that we are best friends by tellng her and stuff but i can't impress her shes just so hard to impress.

What do i do?

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I understand what you're saying and that you want to be best friend with this girl but...why do you want to be best friends with someone who puts all the effort on you and makes you feel like you aren't worthy of her friendship?

I had a best friend right the way up through school but it was never about impressing each other because it was a mutual friendship. We got together and hung out, went shopping, made up games, played on her Sega, made mini films and TV shows on her video camera......fun stuff. We were on equal footing and would never have dreamed of making each other feel inferior.

If this girl is demanding that you prove your friendship to her, then you need to ask yourself how come she has nothing to prove?? What makes her so special? If you ask me, the very fact she is treating you this way tells me that you deserve a much better friend and you should get out there and find them!


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