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Okay... so let me give you the background info. I'm gay and my partner is bi but he "prefers guys over girls." It is both our first relationship in a male-male preference and the problem i'm having is that it seems as if we're not really that close... in the sense that we've been going out for over a month we've been on 6 dates 2 of which sucked because parental issues and we haven't seen each other for about a week and a half... We haven't done anything kissing, cuddling, any of the sort the only type of body contact we've had is just hugging before either one of us leaves to go home... we're both UBER shy but when we're talking online it's like a whole different world/conversation... in the sense of both of us being really "sexual." He's homeschooled and I go to school. I don't start school until the 29th and this week he doesn't have any work so we promised each other that we are going to see a lot of each other before I start school. The problem is that I don't know whether or not this relationship is really worth it because I really like him, I think he really likes me... I just don't know exactly where this is going and I asked him what he thinks and he gave me the generic answer of "wherever we want it to go." Pretty cheesy huh? I've been having some thoughts lately of either breaking up with him or asking if he would consider an open relationship... I just need some help.. Give me some advice! Oh yeah.. he lives 30 minutes away from me and I think that's more of a problem to him than it is for me... So yeah.. if you need anymore information on my situation feel free to message me.
It would help knowing your age, but I still think I'd probably say the samething. You haven't exactly been going out THAT long, so it's not like you know each other real well considering all the other issues like distance. If you really like him and he really likes you, why would you end it? If you want a relationship to work, you have to make it work. Not just hope that it does and go about wondering what you should do. If i were you, I'd give it some time and see if there's things you can do to make time to see each other and get to know both of you better. Then if it's obviously not going to work, you'll know and that'll be the time to say byebyee.
=] Evy
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well, we're both 16 and what i meant by distance was that he doesn't want to take the 30 minutes time for him to drive to me... I always drive to him which I don't mind but since school is coming up... it'll be harder for me to go and see him... hope that isn't too confusing... also, i'm just bothered by the fact that he doesn't have much initiative in this relationship because I always have to set up dates and what not and see if it fits his schedule... most of the time he asks me out on a date it's like to the movies with his friends which makes me feel like a 3rd party but yeah... thanks for the advice anyways
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