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I'm Italian-American and my family is pretty old fashion when it comes to dating. They're not in anyway racists at all but they don't exactly believe in dating outside our race (like any guy that isn't white).
Well I've meet this guy since school started (I've actually met him at parties and stuff before but never really had a chance to get to know him) and he asked me out on a date.
I like him and all and I know my dad would love him (my parents always meet my dates when they come pick me up :/ ). He's Mr. all star football running back, he's smart (top 10% of our class, actually), and he's oh so respectful. But one problem, he's black. And like I said before, my parents aren't into that.
So I'm not exactly sure what to do. I've tried talking to them about the situation in the past, but no luck.
Okay i can completely relate to this..
My boyfriend of two years is black && i`m white..
I wasn`t worried about my mom since my step dad was black himself..But my grandparents && my father i was a bit worried about..
If they aren`t racist at all then most likely they won`t say anything..&& really mixed relationships is alot more common now then in their days..
I suggest letting them meet him beofre tellin them he`s black thats what i did with my grandparents && dad..
My grandfather loves Micah [[my boyfriend]] he says he`s good for me && he told me himself he doesn`t care what race he is as long as he treats his grandbaby good..
If your family loves you they`ll honestly not care as long as your happy..
♥ ♥ GOOD LUCK SWEETiE
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I might not tell them until he picks me up...I don't know if thats a good idea or not yet. But, it's not that easy...becasue that's the thing--I know they love me, but they WILL care.
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