I work as a Customer Laison Complaints Case Officer at a major insurance company, where I have worked for 3 years. I left school when I was 17, as I had some very bad experiences at school and wanted to see what the real world had to offer.
I now live with my boyfriend of 3 years and spend my spare time reading, writing, socialising with friends or just watching some TV.
Times are still hard and I'm trying to cope with various health problems on a daily basis but I'm working my way through things and really want to stop it from getting me down.
I dream of some day going to America and watching a real baseball game (we don't have that at all in the UK) and perhaps finding a job I find creatively fulfilling. Until then, I'm happy trying to be me and making the best of what I have.
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i am 15 female.
one of my bestfriends just lost her virginity to her boyfriend and she'll be 15 in a couple of days. i know the guy she lost it to and he's very sweet at times. she told me that his penis was big and fat. wow.lol. she told me it hurt like hell and im really curious about if it should even hurt because i heard only when you're nervous it hurts but she claims she wasn't nervous and wanted to loose her virginity to him right away. why, i have no clue? Could anyone please tell me stories about thier first time and every feeling you had.
to be honest i kind of feel pressured to have sex because everyone around me has either lost it at 12,13,14, and 15. But i know who i am and i know that loosing my virginity won't make me a betta person than i am now..but still im curious about sex...please tell me everything i should know!! thanx in advance (link)
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It's natural to be curious about sex, especially when you are smack bang in the middle of puberty and so aware of everything related to it all of a sudden.
You know, I didn't have sex until I was 18. I had...opportunities to do things with a guy before that who made it all sound very inviting and I was attracted to him, but I refused to do it, even though he kept pushing the point. I knew he didn't really care about me and I didn't want to lose my virginity to some guy who would just consider me a notch on his bedpost. I wanted to do it when I was in love and ready.
So I waited and I met this amazing guy and eventually, we did it. I'm not going to say it was the most incredible night of my life or that he 'rocked my world', because the first time was very painful. However, I was SO glad I had waited because we knew we truly did love each other. Three years down the line, we're still together and now we have a home together too.
The most important things you need to know about sex are not to do it until YOU are ready and have found a guy you know it won't be wasted on. Then, when you have found him, make sure you do it safely. Use condoms at ALL times, because you can pregnant whether he climaxes inside you or not and make sure that you are on the Pill, which is around 99.9% effective when taken correctly. If you use condoms and the Pill together (what the Dutch call going 'Double Dutch'), you're about as safe as you can be.
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