I work as a Customer Laison Complaints Case Officer at a major insurance company, where I have worked for 3 years. I left school when I was 17, as I had some very bad experiences at school and wanted to see what the real world had to offer.
I now live with my boyfriend of 3 years and spend my spare time reading, writing, socialising with friends or just watching some TV.
Times are still hard and I'm trying to cope with various health problems on a daily basis but I'm working my way through things and really want to stop it from getting me down.
I dream of some day going to America and watching a real baseball game (we don't have that at all in the UK) and perhaps finding a job I find creatively fulfilling. Until then, I'm happy trying to be me and making the best of what I have.
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Location: Dorset, UK
Occupation: Customer Liaison Case Officer
Age: 21
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Ok i made my boyfriend promise that we wouldn't do anything sexual anymore. And he said that he promised. He even promised that he would stop me in the case that I came on to him. But yesturday he was playing with me and tried to have sex with me and I pushed him away but he kept coming at me. Now I don't know what to do because..it really hurts me that he finally seemed like he made a promise that was worth while. Does he even love me. We have been going out for almost 10 months now... (link)
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It is quite possible that he does still love you, but not respecting your wishes is extremely poor behaviour from someone you need to be able to trust completely.
Try to talk to him about this. You need to explain to him that you were hurt by his actions, as he had promised you that there would be nothing sexual in your relationship for the time being. See what he says to this. If he says he just got a little too caught up in the moment then it might be worth giving him a second chance, on the understanding that he realises no means no. Not stopping at the agreed point shows a huge lack of respect for you as a person and as a woman and he needs to realise that.
Talk it over and see if he is still willing to abide by his promise. If he doesn't think he can do this, or if things get out of hand again, as much as you care about him and as much as I don't want to say this, you might need to consider whether you want to stay in the relationship.
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