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Hey, My name is Sara. Im probably the most down to earth girl u will ever meet. I am a highschool studentt and i lovee being with my friends. I love to hang out, party, go out to eat,chill, watch t.v anything. I hate the cold weather. I love summertime, mini skirts flip flops beaches vacation all of tht.

I also have a facebook. Message me if you want it. I hate it when people lie. It doesnt do anything, it just makes matters worse. I dont ike to repeat myself.

I am very sarcastic. but in a good way. i speak 3 different languages. Im not the brightest crayon in the box.

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I have been rude, mean, and bitchy to guys and to my family. Also, online, I have been kind of slutty to guys. I want to change, I want to be nice and kind and not slutty. How can I do it, I try but I'm so used to being rude and slutty and stuff. Please help!

Its hard to put bad habits aside. But its good to see that you want to change for the best. First of all, start by apologizing to your family and friends, and have more of a possitive attitude. During dinner or something, talk to your family about there day or whatever topic. Say " thank you, Please" all that nice proper stuff.

To be nice- apologize to your friends Tell them, " Im really sorry for the way i have acted before in the past, But i want to start a new different way. I hope you can forgive me" . Then if you hang out with ur friends do something THEY want to do.If you ever get upset or furious TRY to hold it in. Keep your mean thoughts in your head and then later on in the day you could go up to your room when ur by yourself and let yourself explode.

Also. Try to gain your friends trust. And talk to them about your change. It really helps.

-xo

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(Rating: 5) thank you so much! you are right and I will def. take your advice on it!

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