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ok wow. today i went to this party. all these people were like drinking and smoking. i felt so bad! i almost felt like crying. this was my first *drunk party* or whatever you call them. i didn't get drunk or smoked or anything. but, i feel so bad. all these people doing all these things. the cops came and arrested this kid because he was above the alchohol level or w/e. i just fee so weird and so dissapointed about this. it's not that i'm a nerd. it's just that i see it on tv and stuff, but i didn't expect this from some people. we all go to private schools. i'm not saying that people that don't go to private schools drink and stuff. but, i mean, that we all live pretty sheltered lives, you know? we go out and stuff, but we go to small schools and i just don't see why they would do this. i just want advice from anyone that maybe has gone through this sort of thing and maybe to give say something uplifting relating to this
thank you
Well, drinking is everywhere. When I first figured out people were drinking, I was sad too. And the first person I found out that did it was my SISTER. But, you have to realize that kids drank way before now. Its not a new thing. And theyre going to continue to drink, so you need to get used to it. Im NOT saying you should do it because I dont even think its right. But if you go to a party you should expect it. Dont worry, you just got freaked out seeing it the first time. Thats normal..just most kids never say anything about it because its "not cool". Its good that you did though! and its good you dont like drinking. Youre smart! :] anyway theres no 2 ways around alcohol, lots of smart kids drink and dumb ones too. They probably dont even want to - theyre just doing it because its "cool". So if you feel like you really cant stand being around it, then you have to give up stuff that is fun or you need to find a group of people who DONT. There must be some people who dont in your school. And if you still want to BE at the party, you dont have to drink. Sometimes, people just get beer and hold it. They dont drink it.
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