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I'll start by describing myself as I have been described by people:
I write amazing songs on guitar. I'm the best actor in my high school's theater company. According to many I'm the smartest kid they know. According to a similar number I'm extremely attractive. They claim that I'm also one of the nicest, easiest-going and can hold stupid and intellectual conversations with anyone equally well.

Okay. I'm not an egotistical selfless son of a bitch. These are things people have said to me. Here's something that bothers me: I have never had a girlfriend. I've never even been on a real date. Ever. I came close a few times, but then one girl decided to tell me yes when she really meant she didn't like me that way, and then another got as far as telling me what to tell her dad when I came to pick her up, but then changes her mind an hour later, because. No real specific reason, end of two or three weeks of getting to know eachother and whatever.

I keep trying. I generally don't like to approach girls like that unless I make eye contact and float a smile across once or twice and have one returned. Everyone else says that works, and then you go talk to them. I can't even make eye contact.

So, am I just an unlikely kid who should shut up and stop bitching and moaning, or is there some insight anyone might have here? I'm inclined to believe the first one, really.

Wow , well I don`t think you`re an "unlikely kid who should shut up and stop bitching and moaning" You seem like a normal kid who`s got a big future infront of him and that`s really cool , but most girls think that`s pretty nerdy at this age , but that dosen`t mean you should stop doing any of the stuff you do. I think you should pick out a girl you like , & then write her a song on your guitar and play it for her ( yeah it`s tough to do that , but alot of girls love that , i think that`s so sweet ) & You said you`re attractive , so that`s a good thing. & just try to give the girl eye contact it`s not hard just look her in the eyes and say what you gotta say , yeah it gets kind of weird after a minute ro two , but you can do it! I hope I helped , & don`t worry you`ll find a girl ♥ =]

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(Rating: 5) Hah, I wrote so many songs on guitar about that one girl. But none were ever really FOR her. Although I offered to let her listen (and sent her a link) and she never did. Good times, eh?

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