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I really dread my grandparents dying. Practically every other night i cry myself to sleep because i am afraid that we will get a call the next morning saying one of my grandparents is gone. (grandparents on my mom's side the most) I see them every week, i have been seeing them a lot recently, and we are very close. I try to think about the happy times, and have fun while i am with them. I still can't keep the thoughts out of my head. Is this ok, just a girl that doesn't want to lose someone she really loves, or should i try and not be so close? i really don't want to pull apart from them. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

That`s really sweet that you love your grandparents so much and you`re scared that their going to die , but look you know everyone dies eventually & it`s just something that happens you cant just make it not happen. I think you shouldn`t pull apart from them , because if you did and they died you would feel bad that you didn`t spend enough time with them.You should just stop thinking about them dying and try to have fun with them because like i said everyone will die one day , and its something that will happen to everyone , so just try not to think about it and try to spend as much time as you can with them! Good Luck! ♥ ♥

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