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ok...here is how it is...i used to be a happygolucky child then my cousin changed and i acted cool like her but i was so young people thought it was cute...but now i am wearing pink clothes...listening to green day....and hard rock!!!!!! what is wrong with me? and sometimes i want to dye my hair black somtimes i come to my sences and say ..no i would look bad with it...then i turn goth and get moody...then another i am happy sweet loving child..which should i choose..and why am i going through this because i need to make a decision because i am getting new clothes and it would be stupid to be totally opposite..my friends think i am weird because i always have opposite feelings one day and another..goth..prep..punk...prep..punk..goth...it changes...for me i prefer to wear goth clothes but be quiet...but cheeerful i want to have different attitudes ..but then all this mixture is to much...plz..for the sake of pete help me!

People change. Labels are lame. Don't use them. You are your own person. If people label you, tell them to shut up. Your friends should be the ones sticking by your side no matter how you label yourself or how you dress, or what type of music you listen to. If you have different attitudes, and different styles, then why do you have to categorize yourself like that? What would you want to call yourself a preppy-goth-punk or something?

You have moods, you're not a robot. Everyone has moods. That's life. If your friends can't learn to accept you, get new ones, people who care about you and want to be around you.

Hope I helped!

♥ SiMA

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