I work as a Customer Laison Complaints Case Officer at a major insurance company, where I have worked for 3 years. I left school when I was 17, as I had some very bad experiences at school and wanted to see what the real world had to offer.
I now live with my boyfriend of 3 years and spend my spare time reading, writing, socialising with friends or just watching some TV.
Times are still hard and I'm trying to cope with various health problems on a daily basis but I'm working my way through things and really want to stop it from getting me down.
I dream of some day going to America and watching a real baseball game (we don't have that at all in the UK) and perhaps finding a job I find creatively fulfilling. Until then, I'm happy trying to be me and making the best of what I have.
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Gender: Female
Location: Dorset, UK
Occupation: Customer Liaison Case Officer
Age: 21
MSN: hottchickie@hotmail.com
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ok so my boyfreind is 15 im 13 the age doesnt bother me that much but the fact that he has has sex before does we can talk about it openly and all but i think he thinks i am imature for telling him there is no way in hell i will lose my virginity when i am only 13 and stuff i dont really no wat my question is i think i just need to talk to someone about it help please (link)
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I understand that you like him and his opinion will matter to you but the bottom line is that losing your virginity is a big deal, especially for girls. You shouldn't let him get away with trying to pressure you into having sex. Let's face it, you're 13 and (forgive me for saying this) barely a teenager! You've started the path to womanhood and have enough to deal with in life right now and it's a bad age to let sex into the bargain as well.
I know that to most guys, sex is just this thing, this right of passage and they have to have done it by a certain age otherwise they get made fun of but it's different to girls. We're the ones that get lumbered with their mistakes if the condom breaks. You have to consider this seriously. No method of contraception is 100% effective and nobody should really have sex until they are certain they could cope with the consequences.
I don't want to sound preachy by saying this all to you so please don't think I am but I want to stress to you that guys like this are not the sort of ones you deserve. You deserve respect and care and love and patience. If he can't see that and thinks you should be having sex so early in life, he is the immature one, not you and you shouldn't let him make you think otherwise. If he puts pressure on you at all, you should really consider your relationship with him carefully. He doesn't deserve you and you could do a lot better.
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thanks alot that was really really sweet, I dont know what to do still, i know i like him and want to please him but im still a big girl and i wont do anything i dont want to or think im not ready for so thanks alot oh and by the way i am so a teenager lol
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