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Q: Ok, my boyfriend and I have only been together for a little over a month but I can't think of anyone I'd rather be with as of this current moment in time. But we've had some trust issues (over things like cheating) in the past,which we are slowly resolving, and it doesn't feel right together anymore (but I can tell that if we make it through this, we will be that much closer). I'm almost afraid of not being with him. However, this summer I'm meeting a ton of new people (new cross country team, new band, camp)and I just want to be single and free to have a good time with anyone. I know you are going to say that I'm young and have a lot of time to worry about this kind of stuff but I just really need advice...should I stay with just him, break it off with him, or keep seeing him but not exclusivley?
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That decision is up to you. You need to first find out how you really feel about him. Do you honestly trust him? Why do you like him? Does he matter that much to you?
Spend some time to really sit down and think things through. If you feel like being open when meeting new people is more important than staying with your boyfriend, then by all means go for it. If things don't feel right, have you talked to your boyfriend about that? If not then tell him, and be 100% honest about how you feel about him and the relationship.
It's up to you. If you feel like things aren't going well and it doesn't seem like things will get better - then think about it - would things be worth keeping like that if it wasn't good? So think things through and don't keep things going if you aren't happy with it and don't really want to be in it. Just be honest and truthful and trusting - and if it really is what you want - then either stay with him or break things off to be open for other people. Hope that helped and good luck.
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Feel free to ask me any questions or for an alternate way of contacting me through my inbox.
I really like giving advice, so thats why I have a column here. I've been inactive for a long time, but I'm back and will do my best to catch up. Advicenators is a great site and it is what we make it. Having my own advice column helped me learn a lot of new things, even about myself, while giving me the chance to help others along the way. Thanks.
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Gender: Male Location: New York Occupation: Student Age: 18 Member Since: August 10, 2005 Answers: 674 Last Update: July 10, 2009 Visitors: 54868
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