I work as a Customer Laison Complaints Case Officer at a major insurance company, where I have worked for 3 years. I left school when I was 17, as I had some very bad experiences at school and wanted to see what the real world had to offer.
I now live with my boyfriend of 3 years and spend my spare time reading, writing, socialising with friends or just watching some TV.
Times are still hard and I'm trying to cope with various health problems on a daily basis but I'm working my way through things and really want to stop it from getting me down.
I dream of some day going to America and watching a real baseball game (we don't have that at all in the UK) and perhaps finding a job I find creatively fulfilling. Until then, I'm happy trying to be me and making the best of what I have.
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okay so here's the deal. I'm 16/f and my best friend is a guy. He's attractive but i've never really like thought about doing anything sexual with him. He used to date one of my other friends, and now he's asking me to do stuff with him. I'm sure if I should. I'd feel bad because of my friend, but I want to at the same time because I haven't been with anyone in along time. Considering i've only been with 2 other guys. What should I do? Am i bad person for even considering it? (link)
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I really don't think you are a bad person for considering it because the fact is that he's an attractive guy. What might make you a bad person is acting on those feelings without speaking to your friend first.
I have to make a point that if he's just asking you to do stuff with him but doesn't want to go out with you as well, he doesn't sound like a great guy. He might be attractive but he clearly doesn't have any respect for you as a person because he doesn't have the decency of having a relationship with you while asking you to do stuff with him.
Now, you might be happy with this sort of situation. I know a lot of people are. However, if you don't want to risk your friendship with the girl who previously dated him, I seriously advise that you ask her if she minds BEFORE you agree to do anything with him. If you agree to do say yes to doing anything with him or worse still, actually DO anything without getting her seal of approval first and she then finds out, you can kiss goodbye to your friendship.
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