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13/f, my grandmother used to be okay, never used to get into my way, always feeding us, and helping us. I went to this award banquet, and she didn't like what I was wearing. When she described what I should wear, it was a wedding dress. I explained that for this occasion, you just wear simple things, but she didn't listen. I went the way I looked anyhow. Everyone who passed us, she would say, you see how that person has that... and other what nonsense. She said how my breasts were sticking out. Bra or no bra, of course it would show, I have breasts, wouldn't the shape and size of it show? Now for graduation, she's forcing to dress up in some wedding gown thing. My mom had to tell her no. My grandmother thinks that I'm dressing the wrong way. What's her problem?

Explain to your grandma that what she wore is different from what girls wear now. Tell her that you are growing up and a lot of other girls breasts sometimes stick out. Tell her that you appreciate that she cares, but this is how you WANT to dress.

Hope I helped!

♥ SiMA

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(Rating: 4) thanks, but she wouldn't listen

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