I work as a Customer Laison Complaints Case Officer at a major insurance company, where I have worked for 3 years. I left school when I was 17, as I had some very bad experiences at school and wanted to see what the real world had to offer.
I now live with my boyfriend of 3 years and spend my spare time reading, writing, socialising with friends or just watching some TV.
Times are still hard and I'm trying to cope with various health problems on a daily basis but I'm working my way through things and really want to stop it from getting me down.
I dream of some day going to America and watching a real baseball game (we don't have that at all in the UK) and perhaps finding a job I find creatively fulfilling. Until then, I'm happy trying to be me and making the best of what I have.
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i recently learned that one of my very close friends is bisexual. She didnt tell me, i just kinda found out through the grapevine. Well, I'm fully supportive of her and everything, but I just dont know how to deal with it. How do i tell her I know? I dont want things to be different between us, because we're really good friends. Help please.
Sincerely,
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Since this is probably quite a difficult time for her right now (especially if she didn't mean the fact she is bisexual to get out), the best thing you could probably do is to just talk to her about it in a very open and honest way, so that she knows you are okay with it.
Arrange to meet her out somewhere, go shopping or something and talk to her. Try something along the lines of "Look, I heard a rumour that you were bisexual and I'm not sure if it is true or not but I want you to know that if it IS true, I still want to be your friend and it doesn't change anything with our friendship. If it isn't, then at least you know the rumour is going round." Hopefully, this will show her that you don't have a problem with it and if the rumour is true, she should open up to you about it and life can go on as normal.
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