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My name is Ryan. And I will answer most everything you want to ask to the best of my God given ability.But I will not sugar coat any answer and I will give MY advice. I don't care about my ratings, so don't think giving me a 1 for an answer you don't want to hear will scare me. And if you already know what you should do about a sitaution, don't come to us here at advicenators asking for a second opinion. And here below is a list of questions you should NOT ask on advicenators. Granted some of them may vary and be acceptable, but overall don't ask the below questions on Advicenators.
**Don't ask questions like "OMG i heard this song on the radio with "insert pointless pop lyrics here" and i wanna know what it is so what is it! Thanks!! I rate 5sssss! hearts". This question can be simply googled with the lyrics, or you need only ask a friend
**Don't ask "ok so there is the hott guy/gal in my class and he/she like got me a *insert gift or simple trinket here* do you think he/she likes me?" This is the most common question here on this website sadly. Unless it is vitally important and actually pertains to a feeling of true feelings, don't ask it. This is most asked by teens. And what teens need to learn is "love" is not thinking a guy/girl is sweet and hott and nice. I know love, and it is so far from all those things. Remember Cicero when he said "Out of all the emotions, love is the most violent. Love is madness."
**"Ok so me and my boyfriend had sex last night and we like used no protection omg he came in me do you think i am pregnant?" Ugh. Stupid teens and their hormones. IF YOU HAVE SEX YOU ALWAYS RUN THE RISK OF PREGNANCY, UNLESS YOUR STERILE. And if you don't know anything about sex, you shouldn't be doing it. Even if you "love" your partner, half the time this is a disallusion and you will end up hurt. Sex is for marriage.
**Or asking what's "in" for fashion, or what they should wear out tonight. Or what is "cute" and what looks good. Pick and choose for yourself what you like, think for yourself instead of trying to let other people do it for you. Stand up and be yourself.
These are the most common questions I have seen on Advicenators. Now there are a few questions that are very good questions and deserve the 3 rating and the best answer possible. But they are usually blocked out with the kinds of questions listed above. If you want to ask something, check the following off that I am listing.
1.Does the question pertain to anything important or trivial?
2.Is proper grammar used?
3.Is the question long and in one paragraph?
4.Is it a question that you yourself can answer?
5.Is there enough detail?
Following those 5 guidelines, you can write a good 3 point answer. That about wraps it up.
I spend alot of time online and here on advicenators, so if you ever need anything then just send something in my inbox or IM me. I'm not opposed to helping people at all, in fact I love doing it. I just want some people to wake up from asking a stupid question.
Thank you all for your time.
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Okay, I'm 13/f there are 2 boys that I likeone named Luis the other names Logan. Logan is always nice to me, he makes sure he has all of my attention if he does something humorus, and seems please when I laugh at it or one of his jokes, and jealous if I talk about Luis. Luis is my ex, we went out even though i'm not supposed to until I'm 16. He broke up with me because he 'felt like it'. He is always nice to me unless Cole is around(I'll tell you that story later if you care to hear it.). We are still friends but not as close as we used to be. He gets jealous when I mention Logan around him and looked even jealouser today at P.E. when(we were playing dodge ball) I gave Logan the ball instead of Him(I had 2 balls and would not give him my other ball so he looked even more dissapointed) Luis is okay with me until Cole(as I have already said)is around, but Logan no matter what is nice to me. Which one do you think I should pick? (link)
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Whoever you choose.
I can't choose for you. And the only advice I can give it to use your best judgement and follow what you feel the right course is.
And besides, you shouldn't worry too much about any of this stuff anyway. Your only 13, you have more important things that can occupy your time than a silly love mix up. Don't waste to much time on your love life, because it will always change and it is pointless to get too involved with it now at 13.
There will be others.
I hope I helped, and good luck.
-Ryan
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