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My name is Ryan. And I will answer most everything you want to ask to the best of my God given ability.But I will not sugar coat any answer and I will give MY advice. I don't care about my ratings, so don't think giving me a 1 for an answer you don't want to hear will scare me. And if you already know what you should do about a sitaution, don't come to us here at advicenators asking for a second opinion. And here below is a list of questions you should NOT ask on advicenators. Granted some of them may vary and be acceptable, but overall don't ask the below questions on Advicenators.
**Don't ask questions like "OMG i heard this song on the radio with "insert pointless pop lyrics here" and i wanna know what it is so what is it! Thanks!! I rate 5sssss! hearts". This question can be simply googled with the lyrics, or you need only ask a friend
**Don't ask "ok so there is the hott guy/gal in my class and he/she like got me a *insert gift or simple trinket here* do you think he/she likes me?" This is the most common question here on this website sadly. Unless it is vitally important and actually pertains to a feeling of true feelings, don't ask it. This is most asked by teens. And what teens need to learn is "love" is not thinking a guy/girl is sweet and hott and nice. I know love, and it is so far from all those things. Remember Cicero when he said "Out of all the emotions, love is the most violent. Love is madness."
**"Ok so me and my boyfriend had sex last night and we like used no protection omg he came in me do you think i am pregnant?" Ugh. Stupid teens and their hormones. IF YOU HAVE SEX YOU ALWAYS RUN THE RISK OF PREGNANCY, UNLESS YOUR STERILE. And if you don't know anything about sex, you shouldn't be doing it. Even if you "love" your partner, half the time this is a disallusion and you will end up hurt. Sex is for marriage.
**Or asking what's "in" for fashion, or what they should wear out tonight. Or what is "cute" and what looks good. Pick and choose for yourself what you like, think for yourself instead of trying to let other people do it for you. Stand up and be yourself.
These are the most common questions I have seen on Advicenators. Now there are a few questions that are very good questions and deserve the 3 rating and the best answer possible. But they are usually blocked out with the kinds of questions listed above. If you want to ask something, check the following off that I am listing.
1.Does the question pertain to anything important or trivial?
2.Is proper grammar used?
3.Is the question long and in one paragraph?
4.Is it a question that you yourself can answer?
5.Is there enough detail?
Following those 5 guidelines, you can write a good 3 point answer. That about wraps it up.
I spend alot of time online and here on advicenators, so if you ever need anything then just send something in my inbox or IM me. I'm not opposed to helping people at all, in fact I love doing it. I just want some people to wake up from asking a stupid question.
Thank you all for your time.
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my name is Leah and I REALLY need your advice! Ok, so me and my bf Jacob have been going out for almost a year now. our aniversery is on the 11 of May. and i love him so so so so so so much. i know you hear that from alot of teens and they dont mean it but i do. he's nice, smart, cute, freindly, sweet, and he is the best thing that has ever happend to me. the first like....5 months we started going out we really rough. we didnt seem to even like eachother but then we started changing for the better and fell in love. we're both happier than weve ever been. but the thing is when we go to highschool their are going to be alot of girls who want to go out with him and alot of cute guys. im so scared as to what will happen. he told me that he would never break up with me but i dont know. in your opinion do you think we can make it through high school? were going to the same one but its a HUGE highschool and we wont have any classes together. is their any advice you could give me? also, do you have any gift ideas for our aniversery? i want to get him something REALLY special. i dont care how much it cost or anything. PLEASE HELP I SWEAR ILL WRITE FEEDBACK AND RATE A 5!! (link)
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You know you don't have to rate 5's or give feedback, I don't care at all about my ratings.
For gift ideas, I have absolutely no idea what you should get him. I know nothing of his likes, dislikes, etc, so I couldn't give you anything close to a good answer.
As for the highschool issue. If your both true to each other, then there should be no issue there. I can understand your concern, but like I said, if you are both true to one another, then there will be nothing that will seperate you. It is a matter of trust, and as long as it is there between both of you, you'll be fine no matter what happens.
Just don't let the social, academic, and personal things in highschool affect you too much to the point you will forget things. Stay true to him and you'll be fine.
I hope I helped, and good luck.
-Ryan
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Rating: 5
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yea, you helped. thank you so much. i really needed it
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