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Okay so my boyfriend and I want to go farther and we are thinking about anal sex. I know it's going to hurt and all but all of the people I've talked to said it only hurts for a little bit. Can someone help me that has had it before and tell me like if it really hurts and if its something I should definitely not do? (link)
Although the safest and best way to keep unneeded drama and situations out of a relationship is to not have sex, going further is okay just so long as both parties involved are fully ready and willing. You first need to be aware of all the risks involved. No, chances are you can't get pregnant from it, although there is a possibility if his "stuff" reaches near your vagina. So make sure you are careful and aware of that. It is going to be painful because there are so many nerve endings back there. You also run the risk of STDs and even possible bleeding and internal damage. If I were you and I HAD to have anal sex, I would first talk with my boyfriend about why y'all are choosing to further the relationship in that manner. There are so many other ways to grow in a relationship. Also, I would make sure to have him wear a condom. Whatever you do decide, know it's going to hurt, the severity varies from person to person. :)


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