I work as a Customer Laison Complaints Case Officer at a major insurance company, where I have worked for 3 years. I left school when I was 17, as I had some very bad experiences at school and wanted to see what the real world had to offer.
I now live with my boyfriend of 3 years and spend my spare time reading, writing, socialising with friends or just watching some TV.
Times are still hard and I'm trying to cope with various health problems on a daily basis but I'm working my way through things and really want to stop it from getting me down.
I dream of some day going to America and watching a real baseball game (we don't have that at all in the UK) and perhaps finding a job I find creatively fulfilling. Until then, I'm happy trying to be me and making the best of what I have.
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Location: Dorset, UK
Occupation: Customer Liaison Case Officer
Age: 21
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Hello,
I am a 14 year old guy...
...I realized I liked my best friend for the 3rd time around Valentine's Day. So, I told her that I liked her, and she said, "No offense, but you need to get over me,". Well, since then, we've barely said a word to each other. My friends have been trying to get her to say something to me, so she did after I gave her a birthday card. I asked her to talk about what had been going on between us, and she said, and I quote,
"Not to be a beyotch, but I just don't feel like talking to you. I don't think we have the connection we used to have,"
After that, I was so upset. I didn't know what do to... I'm still upset, as she now has a boyfriend who is a complete jerk to me. What should I do??? (link)
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It's really awful when this sort of thin happens because, truth be told, there's not a lot you can do.
I understand that you like this girl a lot and by the sounds of it, you have done for a while but she really doesn't sound like a particularly nice person and she's not being a very good friend to you either. Given this situation, the only thing you will be able to do is to write it off as a bad experience and let it all go. Easier said than done, I know but she isn't worth your time and by the sounds of it, you are a nice guy who can do a lot better than that.
Your best bet is to steer clear of the both of them. Avoid them as much as possible. They seem to have the very wrong idea about you and this is the only way you will be able to convince them otherwise.
In the meantime, please don't be too upset. There will be many other girls out there who will truly appreciate you and the wonderful person you are. You just need to get out there and find them.
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Rating: 5
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thank you so much.. its been 5 months and she still doesn't talk to me.. i'm a wreck.. i want to kill myself
**Rating changed by level II moderator**
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