mn731's advice column

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Okay, so theres this guy who ill call "T". ok so when my boyfriend dumped me t was always there for me, and i realized after a couple of weeks that i was beginning to like him also, but he liked my best friend. than a week after he rejected me he told me he liked me, so stupidly i listened to him and rejected this other nice guy. so me and t hooked up, and i made the mistake of giving him head. a couple days after he broke it off with me and said it was bc he was in love with my bestfriend .. i cried for nights and i still do. its been 2 months, and i still have so many feelings for him. i really want to kill myself, and i have hurt myself a couple of times. i really just ddont know what to do because i love him.

thank you so much

First off, you don't love him. If there really was any kind of love in that short "relationship", then he wouldn't have hurt you. Here is a website on how to get over heartache: http://www.womentodaymagazine.com/advice/heartache.html

Also, don't kill yourself over a boy. It's not like you guys actually had a relationship--It was a just a fling--He just led you on only to break your heart-and you let him. This guy is a JERK for doing that to you. Don't let it get to you-Tell yourself that hurting yourself isn't the answer--Seriously, what good will come out of it?
Here is a link on how to get over a guy:
http://wiki.ehow.com/Get-over-the-Guy-That-Has-a-Girlfriend

I really hope I helped & I hope things get better for you.

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(Rating: 5) thanks so much

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