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ok well, here we go. ive been going out with my bf for almost a year now, and i LOVE him so much. but the thing is i SERIOUSLY think he deserves ALOT more than me. and today i got braces on for the second time and i look REALLY bad. i dont want him to freak out on me and i dont want to be a bad gf AND an ugly one!!! should i break up with him or just keep it goin?!?1 im so confused and i give out 5's

You know what? That's all in your head. Don't ever, EVER think that just because you don't think you're pretty, he doesn't deserve you, because that's just WRONG. It would be really sad if the only chicks who are qualified to get boyfriends are the "hott" ones, wouldn't it? Just chill. You love him to death, and I am going to make the inference that he loves you back----by all means stay with him!!! Pretty is as pretty does. "Beautiful" is only the media's standard of what looks good. Do you honestly think that a relationship should be ended just because your lips are thinner or your nose is flatter, or just because of some stupid wires in your mouth? Look at this in perspective. If he breaks up with you because he thinks you're ugly, you should stab him....just kidding. Please don't stab your boyfriend for sanity's sake, but honestly, if he's really that shallow, he's an infantile asshole who doesn't deserve anyone.

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