I just started seeing this guy not too long ago, and last night at his house we were talking about sex and I asked him how many girls he'd been with, and he said 10. Then he just told me (I didn't ask) that he lost his virginity when he was NINE years old! I guess I started freaking out a little, and thought he was lying and I blurted out "How could you do that?! You were still a little boy!!" And that really hurt him and he got this sad look on his face and I just wanted to shoot myself for being so mean to him. He kept saying it was okay, but I will still never forget that look on his face...
Well later that night he was driving me home and ALL I could think about was how young his was. I don't know my feelings about it fully, but I know that no 9 year old should be having sex or even thinking about it. I don't know why I'm still bothered about this, I'm trying to look past it but every time I think about him, I think about this. I don't want to, I really really like this guy and I want it to work out.
So the question is: How do I get past this? Have any of you been in the same situation before, or similar to it?
Thanks for any and all help! I'll rate good!
This is just a possiblilty..Maybe something happen to him as a young child..Not sayin it did but their are sick people in this world..That could of been a possibility of a sad face..[this was just a thought that came to mind]
Also kids are curious even at the age of nine and do things not thinkin of their future with a girlfriend or future boyfriend.. You can`treally hold this against him..I can understand what you are thinkin because honestly i thought things because my boyfriend of 2 years lost his virginity at the age of 12..Geeze i thought that was awful but i talked to him about it and i just told myself thats his past and he was a young kid i can`t blame him for being curious cause myself at that age was a bit curious [Not about sex but kissing and hugging] I think boys are mosr curious bout things like that my brother the age 11 talks about doing girls and his little friends and i`m just like what the hell is worng with kids..
Gettin past this i know will be a bit hard especially if you are going to lose your virginity to him you might want the same in return [Thats how i felt] But just think about things i mentioned and other peoples response to this question..♥Dez
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Thank you for your help! I appreciate it!
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