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Well I use to be on advicenators a while back, & then life got way too busy & I no longer had time for it, & after I while I forgot all about advicenators. =/




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My names maria, but people call me smalls.
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ok i am doing P.E this term and in 3 weeks i have to go swimmin. even when i am on my period. thing is i know that if i wear a tampon it wouldnt matter right? but see my problem is that my mom wont let me. she told me because it will make my cherry pop and it isnt supposed to pop until i am merried.(or so she says) but if i dont dress out and put an effort into swimmin then my grade will go done everyday by a letter grade. so basically (since we got 3 wekks of p.e) it can be possible that get an F and fail P.E completely.. and another thign at my school is that the guys swim wit the girls. there isnt a speration thing.. someone help me.. i dont about sneakin them bc i dont know hoa to use them..

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15/f

Hey

Well there's no real reason for you to be worried so relax! You could either have your mother write your teacher a note, have your mother call the teacher, or have your mother see your teacher in person. If you rather not do this then buy some tampons and use them without letting your mother find out. What she doesn't know won't hurt her, and after all it is YOUR BODY, not hers. It's completely up to you and ONLY you. You are 15 years old, and that's old enough to use tampons.
Since you don't know how to use them, why don't you ask somebody at school. I'm sure some of your friends use them. If anything you can comment my inbox if you do decide to use them and i'll be more then happy to help you. If you don't feel like lying to your mother, maybe you should have a long talk with her about why you think you should be able to wear tampons. Although I'm pretty sure your mother made up her mind and there's no way to change that. If you need anymore help just comment my inbox.

♥ maria ♥

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(Rating: 5) your advice helped me a lot but i dnt know if i should just leave it up to my mom. my mom wont change her mind i tryed over a million times and she never changed it. thanks so much..


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