Ok, i recently posted a "get advice" thing because my sister hates me, and wanted to know what to do about it. So i started to talk to my friend, Mel who is REALLY good with advice, and i went on and on on how horrible my life was and she said:
her: NO
her: don't even start on that "my whole life" shit
her: okay!
her: You life has sucked i guess
her: I mean, duh, you've had a family, and money, and you get anything you want. You have both parents who love you
her: My dad died on christmas eve, my family has NO money, my mom is depressed
her: my older brother won't move out
her: don't even start saying that your whole life has sucked
her: because you have NO CLUE what a sucky life is like!
and then she signed off. Now her away messages says "Yeah, pretty pissed right now. Don't feel like talking. Be back on later." and i totally can relate, but i just REALLY hope i dont lose her friendship. Like, she's really the only person who understands me, and has been there for me. I really dont want to lose her. And i thought since we were such good friends i could just sorta cry on her shoulder, when it turns out she was the one who wanted to cry i guess. What do i do? i called her house, but her brother said she was sleeping, although i really dont think she was. What i want to know is, 1. how do i know she'll still be my friend, and 2. what do i do when i need to get this off my chest? cause i obviously need someone to talk to :(
Thanx,
-Daddy's Little Defect
Hey There,
Your Friend was pretty hard on you. If I were you I wouldn't talk to her. If you ever need anyone to talk to just send me a inbox message and we can talk. Cause my life sucks to.
She didn't have a reason to act the way she did. I'm sure you feel sorry for her about her dad. But she was just probably just having a hard time. She will or might get over it and talk to you again. I've been in Similar situations. Trust me on this. She is probably heart broken about it.
But then again she might want people to feel sorry for her. Which is really mean. Like she's snapping at you and she knows that you will feel guilty and want to be friends with her and feel sorry for her.
Sometimes you just have to look at things in a different angel. They could either turn out good or they could either turn out the worst. But in the end things could end up going good. Just try to explain to her why you were talking like that. And Remember her life sucks alot to.
If you want to talk you know what to do.
-GD ((Green Day))
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My parents always argue, my school life is even harder. Stress, friend moving away, Grannie died 3 months ago. So yeah My life Sucks
-GD ((Green Day))
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thanx alot. How does your life suck?
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