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alright, so i moved into my new school last year (7th grade) and i didnt start of with a good reputation, because i was the new girl. but now a year later i have a very good reputation. i mean, i am friends with the populair people, i cant compiments, and people always say they want to be me.
there is this kid in one of my classes, and i have gotten a very big crush on him. he is nice, sweet, and very cute. i did some asking around and i have found he is a loser. like .. dork kid. hanging out with other dorks.
i think dating him might effect my reputation, but should i go for him anyways?
some one please help me.

It will affect your reputation to an extent, but everything has a bad side to it. You can lose some popularity, but you'll still have friends and all. You shouldn't not go out with someone solely because they're a "loser." Dorkiness is in the eye of the beholder. Just because he's not too popular doesn't mean anything. And reputations come and go. Who knows---in a few years he could be that popular hot guy that everyone wants, but he won't go out with you because you judged him a while back.

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