About DeeSireDiOr
Well hello, hello.
It's been a while.
Well I use to be on advicenators a while back, & then life got way too busy & I no longer had time for it, & after I while I forgot all about advicenators. =/
I'm sorry guys. But I'm back.
Let me start over & introduce myself.
My names maria, but people call me smalls.
I'm 5 feet tall, which would explain why my nick name is smalls. ;]
I'm 17 years old, and a senior in high school.
I always gave great advice before but now that I'm older and wiser, I give
awesome advice.
I'm very open minded, so feel free to ask me anything. I never judge people & I'm
Always here if anyone needs a friend. =]
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hey maria i have a big problem but i dont know who to tell. you seem like a really smart perosn so i came to you. i am now 16 years old but when i was only 14 i almost had a baby. me and this boy were always having sex. i killed my own baby my taken pills and i almost died myself. no one knew about the baby. they all thought i just wanted to kill myself. ever since then i have been crying and feeling like a horrible person i dont know what to do. i dont even know what im asking you
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Oh my gosh I don't even know how to start off with this question. I am so sorry for what you had to go through in the past three years. I honestly cried when I read your question. I think what your asking for is a friend to talk to, someone to help you through this. Well if that's what you're looking for then you have me, Conceder me your friend from now on. Now what you have to tell your self is that everybody makes mistakes. EVERYBODY! God forgives us, and so should you. Forgive yourself. That is the first step. You made a mistake, but don't let that one mistake get in the way of your life. I know that you could forgive but never forget, but at least try to forgive yourself first! You have to understand that you were only a child. Fourteen years old is nearly a baby in my eyes. If a baby steals something in the store or breaks something, do we get mad and punish her?! We simply understand that she just didn't know any better! Same goes for you! You didn't know any better. Sweetheart, we need to learn from our mistakes not surfer from them. I understand all the pain that you're going through, but YOU ARE NOT A HORRIBLE PERSON! You are only human, and the fact that you do feel horrible just proves that you're no where near a horrible person. You actually care enough to hurt inside about what you have done. That shows a lot in a person.
Always remember you're not perfect and that's the way god intended it to be.
Please IM me at least on aim my SN is DiOr BARBIEE
God bless you
♥ Maria ♥
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its funny how you care. im really glad i came to you and not someone else. you made me cry alot to. thank you so much. i need that wake up call. You truely are an angel maria ♥
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