I have studied psychology though I am not a psychologist or a licensed counselor of any sort. I'm an artist and writer and teach both to small private groups. I have worked with counselors by using art and writing projects at workshops to encourage people to open up, and I have been recommended by therapists to their clients to take my classes to help them understand more about themselves and what all is going on in their lives through art and writing. Though I'm not an art therapist, I use many tools from art therapy and my own experiences gleaned from counseling. I have always had the desire to help people and I do it in any way possible. Hopefully I can be of some help to many of you!
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so this guy asked me out finally.
but idk if it was a joke..
he asked me on myspace.
heres the exatc convo..
will you go out with me?
really?
yeah i like you alot.
awe.
yeah i dont want to be mean but whats the answer i gtg soon.
yeah sure.
so you will go out with me?
yeah.
then it ended..
the part where he said i like you alot dosent make since.
it could of been a joke.
what do you think.
i really need help
THANKS SO MUCH!
I RATE 5 (link)
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So when did this guy write to you and ask you out? If it was only recently, then I'd wait until he writes, calls or sees you at school (?) to ask you out on a definite date with day and time.
If it's been a while since he contacted you, you could do the following (actually you could do this even if the contact was recent):
Pass him a piece of paper with your phone number on it - even if he has it already...does he? - and just simply say, call me when you want to get together. Or, use Myspace and ask him to contact you when he's ready to go out. Tell him that you're flattered that he asked, but make your conversation short until you hear what kind of response you get. If he doesn't respond or call, then maybe he's tied up for a while, or, OK, maybe he wasn't all that serious. But I do want to know why you would think he's joking around with you? Have you had no contact, or very little, with him and this just came out of the blue? Still, that doesn't mean he's joking.
His abrupt "conversation" with you really could have meant that he had to go but that he wanted to contact you first. Cool. The other thing is that he may have been a little shy about doing this in the first place and didn't know what else to write.
Try not to focus on the negative...and so quickly, at that! Just relax and go with the flow. You'll find out sooner or later if he's serious. Be patient.
Good luck and let me know if he sets up a date.
P.S. You announce that you "rate 5." That's nice, but you really should only rate an answer by how much you feel it can help you. Adding that to your message only sounds like some sort of bribe! (Yeah, I know. You're not the only one who does this, but I don't think it's a great idea, if you don't mind my saying so.)
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Rating: 5
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lol..
i rated everyone else 1..
there mean...
but seriously thanks!!
i think this will work!
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