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i read one of your answers about shaving down there.
i am 14 and a female (duh)
i have hair down there .. and all i do is shave around the top part and on the sides so when i am wearing a bathing suit nothing shows. should i be doing anything else right now? i am not sexually active or anything.
but when that time comes .. what should i do?
just shave it? i tried that once and it hurt like .. i dont know what. and it grew back pretty fast.
i am so confussed about this. please help me out

Hey

Relax! Take a deep breath. If you're not sexually active then NO there isn't a main reason for you to be doing anything down there just yet if you feel like you'll be more comfortable removing hair down there then go ahead. REMEMBER YOU DON'T HAVE TO DO ANYTHING YOU DON'T WANT TO!

But when you do decide to do something about it,
I would suggest you shaving. Yes it does end up growing back really fast, but it grows back the same for everybody no matter how they remove their hair. It shouldn't hurt so you must have been doing it the wrong way. Also before you start shaving you should use a trimmer so that way their will be less to shave and less Possibility of razor bumps.

Heres what you do:

1.Make the time. You'll never want to do this when you're in a rush. I like to perform these rituals while sitting on the edge of my tub in a well lit bathroom.

2.Warm up your pubes. Run the water in the tub at its hottest temperature to create steam. Steam helps to soften and relax the pubic hair and skin.

3.Trim the hair to about 1'4" away from the skin. Make a hot water compress out of a washcloth and snuggle your whole pubic mound with the cloth for two minutes.

4.Study the pattern of your hair growth with your fingertips. First shave with, then against, the grain. Shaving against the grain may get you a closer shave, but it can also cause irritation for some folks. If shaving against the grain causes bumps, then just go with the grain.

5.Make it slippery. To do the actual shaving, use a brand new razor and shaving cream, perhaps one with aloe.

6.Ready to shave?

Apply shaving cream to the area. Your goal when shaving is to run the razor over each area only once or twice. This reduces irritation. So after moving the razor for only a few inches, rinse it to clean out the hairs. This process is more like a guy shaving his face than a woman shaving her legs. Smooth strokes with a clean, fresh blade work best.
Finish by washing with the washcloth and plenty of water. This prevents your pores from getting clogged.
Dry off and apply a talc-free powder.


Hope this helps

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♥ maria ♥

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