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Q: k well my best friend krystal is always telling secrets about me to my other best friend ari(arianna) and well it dusnt exactly make me feel good:( but their always doing it!!!! especially at lunch. and wenever im around k(krystal) i feel down because of things like that. and not too long ago a(ari) called my house n said that k did not come to her house yet which i new was a lie cuz i knew she was going to her house and then i said hold on then i put the phone on mute and i heard them whispiring so i told her i had to go anyways she was acting all wierd so i knew k was over. and they just dont understand how i feel. and i also heard her dad say "hey girls!" in the background and a dusnt hav a sister. and they just really put me down especially k.
please please help me thnz guyys

sincerely,
sad gurlly
Hey there! Friendships should always be open. And most importantly, you should tell them how you feel. Be honest and tell them both straight-forwardly that you do not appreciate that they're telling each other secrets behind your back. Be open and ask what may be wrong. If you're just going to hold on to it, and not approach it directly by not telling them, or keeping it bottled up inside then the problem may never be solved, and the hurt builds up inside. Also, if your friends don't tell the truth when you ask them, then they're not worth your friendship. Friends are supposed to always be true to each other, adn this is made possible by confiding in each other with things that you know you woudn't tell anyone else. So the best thing is to approach them and be honest about the way you feel, and don't hold back. I wish you the best of luck, and if you need anything else, hit me up in the inbox. Take cares!

thanks alot you really helped. i really appreciate it.

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