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Q: In order to know the real me, you have to know me well. I'm usually shy around people that i know know that much. This sucks cuz im a totally fun person! No one knows who I am!! ALl the guys of course want fun girls to go out with. I'm not ugly because people have told me (not my close friends) that im pretty. A hott boy even said so himself! I just wish people could see the real me. Does anyone have this problem? CAn anyone help me??
Hey there! The best thing is to be yourself. Don't care about what other people may think, because your character is WHO YOU ARE, and you reputation-only what people think of you. If the reason of holding back from being your true self is because of your reputation or what others think of you, then you have to stop beleiving in that reason right away, because do you really want to go through life, hiding who you really are? A lot of opporutnities and meeting a lot of people slips away if you aren't really yourself. So don't hold back, and be the person YOU want to be. I hope all goes well. Take care gherlie!

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