My aunt passed 8 months ago. Her and I just so happen to wear the same size clothing. About 4 weeks ago, my uncle brought over some of my aunt's clothes for me to go through and pick out what I would like to keep. He gave the clothes to us, so I'm not pressed for time to decide because we don't have to return them or anything like that, but my Mom has been rushing me to look through them so she can clear them out of the basement. Thing is, I don't want the clothes. It's not that they're unappealing to me. It's that it would just be too emotionally upsetting to have them. I really don't want them, and I'm firm in my decision. My mom views it as, "perfectly good clothes", and since they're free, she might be a tad bit mad if I didn't accept them. Don't get me wrong, I've very thankful for the offer. But I just don't want to look like a total jerkface to my unlce's family. *Do you think it would be rude of me to refuse the clothing?
Hun i can completely understand this my Aunt Rindi recently passed in April and my uncle as well as yours wants us to go through her clothes and Me,My mom and my other Aunt haven`t done it yet.. i don`t want her clothing either and the day we was pose to do it the car broke down and i was so happy.. i know it was going to be upsettin and i have cried enough so i told them i wanted to wait a while and they excepted it.. Just tell them how you feel about going through these clothes of your Aunt`s.. Ask i you can just put em in your closet or something to get em out of the basement and tell them you`ll go through them soon as your ready.. ♥ Dez
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Wow! This was beyond helpful!! Thank you very much for supplying your time and effort. I apologized for the late rating, but perhaps you'd like to know that (since it's six months later) the clothing ended up going to victims of the hurricanes in the south. Again, thank you sooo sooo soo much!!!! (:
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