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The names Sammy. I'm 16. 5'0" & 96 pounds. Homeschooled & in the 11th grade. Live in the beautiful state of North Carolina. I loove Hollister & Pac Sun, they are like the best stores ever invented. Smoothies are my anti-drug, haha.

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ok im sry this is so long but i need this advice please read

ok so theres this guy that i went out with this summer and we broke up. i still really really like him and i talk to him still and were fwb(friends wiht benefits)and everything and he tells me how much he really really likes me and im all he thinks about and he says he wants to be wiht me but his sports, work, and school get in the way for him to have a girlfriend. and he doesnt want to hurt me again well the past week or so he hasnt really called and when i call him he is always hey can i call you back and he never does and ya i dont know if he still likes me or what but i dont know if i should wait for him or i should move on!!

please let me know soon i have wanted to know for awhile

Well, personally I think that he's just using you. Even though he says he likes you a whole bunch & he's always busy.. he COULD make an effort to see you or call you every now and then. It's like he just keeps telling you he likes you so he can get things from you. That's the bad part of being in a FWB relationship.. the girl always ends up getting hurt because the guy only wants things but the girl ends up liking the guy. I suggest that you just move on because he's not worth your time & I know that you can find a guy that wants you for something more than your body or sexual pleasure.. that would actually care for you. Those guys are out there somewhere :) BUT, on the other hand.. if THIS is really the kind of relationship you want with him, then you could wait around or him.. but just to warn you- you might end up getting hurt worse in the end. Good luck though hun! ♥

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