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ok so my moms going into operation tomorrow. and its not a big one. but im just scared cause she told me you can die over the littlest ones too. and im really worried.. what can i do to get my mind off of everything?

Hey sweetie.

If you don't mind me asking. What kind of surgery does she need to get?

Your mom will be okay. My mom has gone through a lot of operations.. two of the surgeries she's gone through, has been in her brain. And those are very risky, and she's survived both of them. If that makes you alittle better knowing that. Any surgery you get, is risky. But, so many people come out of surgery fine! It's just a doctor basically has to say that because if something were to happen, people could sue them saying "well you didn't tell me this was possible.. blah blah blah" kind of thing. When my mom was getting surgery though, things that got off my mind was actually going to school and getting away from everything, hanging out with my friends, listening to music, enjoying things I liked to do. Try to think positive things, like "well when she gets out of the hospital, we'll go shopping" or "go out to lunch" or something like that. You could also try running or reading a magazine or what not. Just things you do in your every day life, that you like to do, is going to get your mind off of it a little bit. But, tell me how it goes please and if you still need help, just leave another message in my inbox. If you need to talk about it or anything, I'm here for you also! You're mom is in my prayers! ♥

♥ Kourtney

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(Rating: 5) thankks. shes fine. just really sick from the medicine ♥
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