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this question is for girls who are in cheerleading, good in science, Plays the viola, is outgoing, and has a reputation for being nice.

The reason for so many details is because i have a crush on a girl who is all this and i wanna know what you see in a perfect guy and if someone had a crush on you, would you avoid them or how would you respod when you wer 11 or 12 {thats the age of the girl, not me, Im thirteen so im legal}? Another reason for the detasils is i believe there are steriotypes.

I'm 16, but I have a good idea what 11-and-12-year-old girls want, mainly because I was 11 at one time and I have a 13-year-old sister. Just because a girl cheerleads, plays the viola, is good at science, etc. doesn't mean that her taste in guys differs from any other girl. Most girls that age would probably say "0h I want a guy who treats me well blah blah blah" to sound deep, but actually, the guy that attracts the attention is almost always g0nna be h0t and popular (the more unattainable, the better). He has to be not nerdy and geeky, because she's afraid she'll look nerdy and geeky as well. Give them about 3 more years they'll start looking beyond shallow qualities. Of course, there are always exceptions, but don't count on it.

How would she respond if a guy had a crush on her? It depends on the maturity level. Maybe her hormones haven't kicked in yet and she isn't really ready for guys. But most girls usually have gotten past that by 11 or 12. If you're popular and/or alright-looking and at least had a decent social reputation, she most likely wouldn't react really bad.

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(Rating: 5) thanx. Im not to good-looking but id probably be an exception but it doesent meen i wont try to be better looking
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