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okay i need help. there's this guy and i reallllyy like him. he's perfect, awesome personality, beautiful eyes, funny, gorgeous smile/dimples.. what more can you ask for? but anyways, we've known each other for like 1 1/2 months, and we text and call everry night. but then when we see each other at school we barely talk?! when we're on the phone we can carry on a convo. forever. do yall think he likes me? cause i wanna go out with him. but i don't know if he likes me and i don't wanna ask him b/c i'm scared to know his reaction. so what are some ways for him to liikee me? i've never really felt this wayy for a guy before. please help. i rate=) thxx!

You know what? Never ever never assume that he likes you unless he gives totally obvious signs like flirting, etc., or he tells you. If you totally get convinced that he likes you, but he really doesn't, and then finds out, you'll look like a fool. I'm not saying that he DOESN'T like you, he very well might, but don't make any assumptions. Maybe you guys carry on a long convo because you're keeping him on the phone and he's too scared of being rude to cut it off. Also, there are no ways to make him like you except be yourself. Guys love it when girls act like themself. Don't make up lies about yourself to impress him, don't badmouth about other girls to look better (it actually makes you look really bad), and don't try really hard to win him, because that could get really messy and screw up your friendship. And don't ask him out quite yet. You've only known him for about 1 and a half months. Wait until the time is right. You'll have a better chance of him saying yes once he's known you longer.


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