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i have 2 questions, and i would like honest answers!
What do you consider a girl that has had sex since the age of 13. Had 2 other bfs at 14, cheated on the last 1 with a guy she hardly knew the 2nd day they hung out? (the guy was 17) they are still together.

What do you consider a guy that has sex with a girl he barely knows the 2nd night knowing she has a bf??

i rate 5s for intelligent answers!!!

To tell you the truth, I think that a 13-year-old girl is too young to be having sex. I mean waaay too young. 13 years old is old enough to start venturing into warm relationships with boys, but certainly not sex. And I'm not tryng to be mean or anything, but it's also kind of slutty. Making yourself available to boys is a very bad reputation for a girl of that age. Losing your virginity is a big step, and a 13-year-old isn't mature enough to handle it, even if she's considered "mature for her age." Sex shouldn't just be with some hot joe shmoe, but a person you really love and trust. A lot of girls go "but I do love him" but a girl of that age cannot fall in love. A 13-year-old isn't emotionally mature enough and isn't experienced enough of the world to fall in love, no matter how much she's gone through.

There's nothing really wrong with having a boyfriend at 14, but not if he's 17 and you barely know him. You should go out with a guy if you know him and you feel good around him. If they get to know each other, etc., that's lucky. But that's not always going to happen.

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