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Q: so lets call the guy i like bob
lets call my best friend lucy
ok well heres the story...
last year i really got to know bob and i really liked him, but i couldnt tell if he liked me bak. well i would always tell lucy this and she seemed to care like she would always tell me to tell him i liked him but i was to nervous.
well this year lucy has a boyfriend and we just started school and she got a class with bob and i didnt. now she always tells me how he comes up to her table and talks to her and stuff. and lucy found out that bob thought she was hott and for some reason she needed to tell me this and i was kind of quiet after she said it and so she was like "i know your jealous". also she just now told me that she "liked him in the beginning of the year last year" and i doubt that cause she would have told me before. i just dont understand why she is trying to make me jealous when she is my best friend and has a great relationship with her boyfriend? ahh whats the problem?
hey there! i had the same situation happen to me. don't worry about it though. i kind of think that maybe things aren't really great in her relationship with her boyfriend at the moment, and knowing that you really liked bob, she wanted to make you jealous. but first of all, if your friend is talking to you about your crush like this, without thinking about how you would feel, what kind of friend is she, you know? friends should always support each other, especially when they confide in each other about their crushes. the best thing to do is talk to her straight, ask her what's wrong, and why she says that she likes him now, especially when she has a boyfriend. it's not right though, to give up a friendship for a guy, but your friend needs to see things straight and have some common sense about things. so the best thing to do is just tell her honestly about how you feel, but do remember that friends matter more than any guy. take care, adn good luck! if you need anything else, you can contact me through the inbox.

Thanks, u gave really good advice!

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