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okay heres my problem..one of my best friends is going out with this guy two years older than her... and he has a REALLY bad rep like everyone knows him for having sex and using all these girls... but ive talked to her and him many times and hes changed a lot over the year, and he really likes my friend and he wont let her do anything too bad because he doesnt want her to think hes using her, but were going into highschool and i really am scared for her beacuse she will start to get the bad rep and no one understands there relationship and will think hes just using her.. what should i do and what should she do should she break up with him and wait till later in the year or what?

thanks

If she really likes him, then they should stick it out. People always talk, and they will think what they want. The best way to get people to shut up, is just your friend and her boyfriend to show people how much they mean to each other, and how much he has changed.

A bit of warning: I married a guy with a reputation. While is the greatest guy I have ever met, and he completely changed, all of my friends that knew his rep completely stopped being friends with me when we told them we were getting married. We have a great relationship, but we both lost all of our friends to be together. We've made new ones since, and I figure the old ones will come around eventually. But your friend may want to be prepared for something like that to happen.

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(Rating: 5) thanks i think thats what will happen.. well i hope!




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