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hey
my best mate introduced me to dean through msn. we have never met but we have kinda connected. we have been through the same kind of emotional problems and the other day he said we should meet up and talk about things properly. i really want to as i need to talk about my life. but im scared because i dont like the way i look. i am overweight. do you think that will matter.
i want to meet him because wen we speak to each other its like we know exactley what each other mean. he helped me to get over self harming and a broken heart and i helped him to get over his thoughts of suicide and depression so we are very close emotionally, we just have never met.
do you think it would be a good idea?
thanx
xx
*emz*
NO. It's NOT a good idea to arrange to see someone you've met online. You have NO idea who this guy is. For all you know, "Dean" who says he's from Kansas could be a 45-year-old pervert in Petaluma. This girl I know who was 16 met up with this other 16-year-old guy online who helped her with her problems and stuff, much like your situation. They met up at a restaurant in California and he was really a 50-year-old and raped her. Just because your best mate introduced him doesn't make it safe. She could've met him online as well. Even if you live in a small town you may think "what's the harm? where I live nobody's really that dangerous." But the internet is available to everyone all over the world, and whoever you met online could easily take a plane from South Dakota to Oregon. PLEASE DO NOT meet up with this guy! People can wear all sorts of different masks on the Internet where nobody is face-to-face.
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Well, why didn't you say so? You just said that you were introduced 2 him on msn! You didn't say anything about primary school!
(Rating: 2) hey thanx for the advice but i know hes not a 50 yr old perv cos my friend we met thru went to primary school with him. thanx any way xx i will be careful just incase tho!